when family members gossiped about you, it could either be the funniest thing or it could simply break someone's heart. in my case, both happened. what i found out today was really interesting. i was out with mom today and we talked as usual when she suddenly asked me, 'do i have 'tomboy' friends?'. i knew she meant 'pengkid' but i wasn't gonna correct her because i knew something's up. so i was like, 'huh? tomboy friends? why?'. i kind of suspected that someone must have said something about me. then she told me the whole story. seemed that one of our family members told her(mom) that she heard i've been going out or rather is 'close' with a 'tomboy'. *jaw drops* HUH?! like seriously?? i was shocked at first. i don't know if anyone notices but i don't go out that much. especially not after work. even on most weekends, i'd spend it curling in bed all day. and yes, i do have a 'tomboy' friend BUT she's a colleague AND we have NEVER NEVER been intimate let alone hang out together. sheesh. i of course found it quite amusing after all that jaw dropping moment. i mean, okay..if you've actually seen me with a pengkid, kindly give proof. i would admit it there and then. i don't know lah if she thinks Mundane Munster is a tomboy. HAHAHA. im just kidding mok! love you long time! so..yes i am SINGLE but i'm not desperate. and why do you care who i go out with anyway. mom on the other hand was mad and upset. what mom wouldn't? to be hearing people talking rubbish about ur children would of course upset you, right. therefore friends, be careful of what you say and what you do. people are always talking and you just can't stop everyone of them, can you. i've learned not to trust anyone completely, even family members. i will now choose what i want to say and to whom i want to say it to.
2 years ago
